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How to Write Heartfelt Birthday Wishes (Sample Phrases Included!)

Not sure how to say, "Happy birthday!" in a meaningful, heartfelt way?

Finding the perfect words for a birthday card is always hard, but there's no reason to do all the wordsmithing alone! Check out our list of sentimental birthday wishes below to help you craft your own touching message to anyone.

If you're wanting to create your own thoughtful birthday message from scratch, then check out the extra tips at the end!

Heartfelt Birthday Wishes to Inspire You

When plain-Jane "Happy birthday" just won't cut it, try some of these kindhearted phrases on for size! And of course, feel free to substitute "friend" or "sister" or whoever with the person you're actually writing to.

Happy birthday! I'm so fortunate to have a caring, thoughtful, and strong woman like you in my life. I value our time together and am looking forward to many more years of laughter and love.

Your birthday is a day to celebrate you, so I hope you recognize just how much you mean to me. Your compassion and love inspire me daily. Happy birthday, dad!

Dear friend, I can't tell you how much you mean to me…but I'll try! I'm so proud to know someone who is so dedicated and so concerned with the happiness of others. You're an inspiration. Happy birthday!

Happy birthday to someone who has always been there for me, rain or shine. I know that my life could not be as rich or fulfilling without you! Thank you for being you every day. Now let's celebrate!

My life is better for having you in it! Happy birthday, and may this upcoming year bring you all the happiness in the world—and maybe some hilarious adventures, too. I am looking forward to making even more memories together.

Happy, happy birthday to my dear sister. Since birth, you've been my closest companion, friend, and truth-teller. I'm thankful that I have you to keep me balanced and sane. Here's to another year together!

My sweet wife, there's no one like you! I'm wishing you the happiest of birthdays today and hope you realize how much joy you bring me every day. Our love only gets stronger over time, and I appreciate what you do for me and for us. I love you!

My precious mom, happy birthday! You're a bright and shining light in my life, just like you have been for 20+ years. I can't thank you enough for teaching me how to live, how to love, and how to be me. Wishing you all the best today and always.

To my son, happy birthday! You fill my life with happiness every day, and I can't tell you how proud I am to be your parent. You've taught me so many things since the day you were born, and I'm looking forward to another year of life with you.

As your birthday approaches, I've been reflecting on just how incredible you are. I appreciate your courage, your confidence, and your sense of adventure in the world. My life is better because you're here with me. Happy birthday!

Today we celebrate you and the light you bring to everyone around you. I hope you realize just how much you mean to me and how much better you make my life. I'm grateful for our monthly hangouts—they always restore my soul. Happy birthday!

It's your birthday, so I hope you'll let me express a few sappy thoughts. First, you're incredible! I admire your persistence, intelligence, and warmth, and I'm so thankful to have you as a role model. Second, you've inspired me—honestly! I wouldn't be on the path I am today without your advice and guidance. Thank you, thank you! And happy birthday.

Happy birthday! I know things have been tough recently, but I just want to tell you that you're an amazing parent and I'm so grateful to have you as an example for my own kids. I love you!

Happy birthday to my precious husband! You're the first and last thought of my day, every day. I'm looking forward to celebrating you today and for the entire year to come. Here's to another year of your life and another year of our life together.

Dear daughter, I can't tell you how much joy I feel at watching you grow up—and how much gratitude I feel that I get to be your mother. You are a treasure to everyone who knows you. Happy birthday!

6 Tips for Writing Your Own Sentimental Birthday Wish

If you read through all of the example birthday wishes above, then you may have noticed some common themes. Since it's easier to write your own heartfelt birthday message when you have a pattern or template, we're providing exactly that in the tips below!

1. Write Something

Okay, okay—obviously you have to write something. But we mean it; literally just write something.

Ask any writer, and most will tell you there's nothing scarier than a blank page. By simply putting even a few words on the page, you'll all of a sudden have something to work with. And the more you scribble down, the more ideas will come to mind!

Try one of these starter sentences:

  • Happy birthday! I am so proud of you for _________.
  • It's your birthday, and I really want to celebrate how special you are. This year, I've been so impressed by ___________.
  • You deserve a pat on the back, so here are just a few of the MANY accomplishments I've noticed in your life this year: ____________.
  • On your birthday, I'd love to call out your most special traits: ___________.
  • You know what makes me proud to be your _____? It's your _________ and ________.
  • Happy birthday! Thank you for being _________.
  • I'm so excited to celebrate your birthday because ________. My life is better thanks to your ___________.

2. Add Something They Like

You can make a generic birthday message instantly more personal by adding a few touches of individual personality.

For instance, maybe you add a reference to a favorite TV show, movie, or book. Or maybe an inside joke or favorite internet meme. For a truly sentimental birthday message, you could also make an analogy to someone important to them, explaining why they're just like that person they look up to.

3. Bust Out the Thesaurus

There's no need to be Shakespearean about it, but you shouldn't be afraid to add some word pizazz, either. If nothing else, using a thesaurus for everyday emotion words can really help you narrow down how you feel about the birthday boy or girl and what you want to express—which in turn makes your message much more emotionally rich.

4. Use a Quote

Stealing other people's words is a timeless exercise, and it's a great way to add some literary weight to your heartfelt birthday message. Depending on the theme of your message, consider some quotes like these:

"Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom." — Marcel Proust

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." — Anais Nin

"A friend is a gift you give yourself." — Robert Louis Stevenson

"The important thing to you is not how many years in your life, but how much life in your years!" — Edward J. Stieglitz

"Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning." — Gloria Steinem

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined." — Henry David Thoreau

"Life itself is the most wonderful fairy tale." — Hans Christian Andersen

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." — Maya Angelou

With the help of a quote, your heartfelt message is easy. Just choose a memorable quote and then write a sentence or two about why these words make you think of the birthday boy or girl.

5. Share Your Feelings

Don't be afraid to get a little sappy! After all, if your birthday wish is going to come from the heart, there's certainly going to be at least a few feelings involved. And when it comes to a birthday card, "heartfelt" can mean so many things.

For instance, take a look at these words and think about how they might relate to the birthday boy or girl:

  • Pride
  • Joy
  • Elation
  • Surprise
  • Admiration
  • Gratitude
  • Awe
  • Passion
  • Romantic love
  • Platonic love
  • Sense of connection
  • Inspiration
  • Empathy

You don't have to be sneaky about it. You can take any of these words and directly say, "I am so proud of you for ______" or "I am grateful that you _________" or "I admire your ________."

6. Look to the Future

After you've dug into some personal feelings and expressed some heartfelt sentiments, it might feel awkward trying to end your birthday card. What can you really say after such a touching or even vulnerable message? Well, one easy way to wrap things up is to add a brief note looking forward to the future!

Express your hopes for the birthday girl or boy and maybe suggest a future activity to do together. It's always meaningful to welcome a new year of life with specific hopes, dreams, and ideas.

With the examples and tips above, you're ready to write your own heartfelt birthday wishes—all that's missing is the card! Check out Foxdog's birthday card page today. You can add your own creatively penned message, and we'll send your special birthday wishes directly to the recipient.

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